We watched this documentary, Good Hair, the other night. It's funny, informative yet kinda sad. You should watch it.
Beware, there is some language, adult talk and the side of a breast is shown in a modeling show.
Bottom line for us is, natural is good. I think Abel's fro is beautiful, Steele's Latino looking hair is beautiful and Evangeline's completely white girl hair is beautiful.
If we ever adopt a black girl, I pray she doesn't beg me for a perm or a weave...but if she does I will show her this movie and tell her that she already has good hair.