CS Lewis on being yourself..
The more we get what we now call 'ourselves' out of the way and let Him take over, the more truly ourselves we become...Our real selves are all waiting for us in Him. It is no good trying to 'be myself' without Him. The more I resist Him and try to live on my own, the more I become dominated by my own heredity and upbringing and surroundings and natural desires. In fact what I so proudly call 'myself' becomes merely the meeting place for trains of events which I never started and which I cannot stop. What I call 'my wishes' become merely the desires thrown up by my physical organism or pumped into me by other men's thoughts or even suggested to me by the devils. ...Propaganda will be the real origin of what I regard as my own personal political ideas. I am not, in my natural state, nearly so much of a person as I like to believe: most of what I call 'me' can be very easily explained. It is when I turn to Christ, when I give myself up to His personality, that I first begin to have a real personality of my own. C.S. Lewis from Mere Christianity